The beginning of the year always be a moment for many people to initiate a major change in his life. Not just resolution, but the revolution! Therefore this time I will share how to be a real player.
Quiet .. we do not teach you to be a man playing a woman. Please listen to the end of this article.
Maybe some of you have already started creating many revolutions after start practicing what Hitman System share in his article for this. But not a few of my friends who read the article Hitman System misinterpret that we share here .. some still ask,
".. Why so arrogant?"
".. Means in front of the girl should keep the image huh?"
".. Should always be perfect, then?"
".. The point tug it?"
"Ah .. it not free, can not express themselves"
".. Why so casually so with a girl?"
"That should not succumb at girl at all?"
And many similar questions that can spend one life cycle of the universe just to write them down one by one .. hahaha.
If you were among those questioned one of the questions above, you most likely do not understand the principles of a true player.
Imagine: You are playing a game of football, for example PES2012 or FIFA12 (Konami and EA should pay me for this mention!) You start playing with your friends, and after completing a few rounds, it was not good .. your friends!
After a few times and always win games, you felt bored and looking for an equal opponent. Then you play with your other friends ... unfortunately, your friend this one is worse! He did not get to play!
You still forced to play with your friend on this one, and the result is ... you left scored many times until you feel that a goal you print nothing.
What do you feel?
Bored.
This is perceived by the women out there who crave an exciting and colorful life with you in the lives of their romance! You think they are happy when they always win whenever dealing with men?
During this time, when playing with them, you intentionally budge. You FEAR makes them angry that you let them arbitrarily applies to you just to please them. Yes, my brother .. you are afraid of losing them .. face it!
The bad news is: they know you do not play well, they saturate treated as such, they know you fake, they know there is meaning behind your kindness, and the severity of them instantly know that you ngarep!
"But love's not a game!" I hear you protest. Love is not a game, but romance is a game. Love is a feeling, romance is a pattern of interaction between two people to get love. In the pattern of interaction there is a social game.
Simple example, men typically have a strategy to get love by giving him attention, gifts and compliments that she is falling in love with him. Women usually have expensive sales strategy and perform various tests on him to make sure the man is the person responsible and serious to him.
If romance is not a game, why there should be strategies and ways like that? Why do not you just visit every beautiful woman you see in the mall and say, "Hi, I love you .. would not be my boyfriend?" Or, "Hey, you're so beautiful .. May I kiss you?"
Only crazy people who do not understand the procedures and social norms that do things like that. Even celebrities are famous and good-looking though not doing that.
There is nothing wrong with the game of romance. Because it is always a process and interaction patterns to do to get whatever you want. Which one is you do not understand the rules and how to play properly.
So, improve your outlook on the game of romance ..
Be player true! Play a fair game! Player not only nuts that can play a woman, not a player who gives false promises on all women and said that he was only loyal to one woman!
Be a real player means you know exactly rights obligations as well as a man. Yes .. Rights and obligations, not a liability only.
So obviously this is not a matter of self-respect, pride, self-styled cool, arbitrarily or valid selfish .. But exactly how do you express yourself best. Which do not impose yourself in front of a woman just for fun. You do not need to sacrifice yourself!
PLAY contrast to compete, when to play winning and losing is not important. The important thing is that you play as well as possible so that the game becomes exciting and FUN! Not to beat, let alone dropped!
When you give the game equivalent of gebetan your game, when you dare to provide significant resistance, was the first time she felt the atmosphere FUN in life. This is what makes you different is different from the men out there who could only obey his wishes only to taste the apparent closeness with them ... this is madness!
When you ngarep want to taste how wonderful to live with them, you will never even have a chance to show your game!
Focus on yourself ..
Never again think go with the flow! To be able to play well, train yourself! Again, practice!
Why?
Because women have studied and trained skills of their romance either intentionally or out of their social environment AWAY before you read this article. Even when you are still playing toy cars, they've been playing simulated romance with Barbie doll, complete with ayahan father, mother-ibuan, and mistresses.
Worse, during the time you are not aware that you are NOT JAGO in play and continue to complain over the defeat that you experience. You blame the woman on your ketidakjagoan and begging that the woman succumbed to you! This is insane! Are you going to complain and beg on your opponents when you lose in the game of football?
HELL NO brothers! Admit your defeat with sportsmanship and train harder for the next game!
In workshops or seminars, we provide many tools that can speed up your workout, including the brotherhood ready to slap you when you fall back into the hole ngarep and keep your discipline in practicing!
So .. already did you begin to train yourself?